"...to every action there is an equal and opposite reaction..."

Tuesday, March 20, 2007

Oh The Drama!

Bitchcraft Can Be A Bitch

A drama has been unfolding at one of the more familiar message boards and I do believe that true colors are beginning to show. This subject matter is definitely not new to this blog, but the recent written outburst deserves an additional examination.

A very simplistic conjugation of the word “moderator” would lead us to moderate. There was absolutely nothing moderate about this particular series of post. First came the “whoa-is-me; beg-me-to-stay” resignation which garnered an ample amount of attention. Apparently the pleas did not sufficiently feed the ego, so a festering zit upon the face of one blog erupted and the reality spewed uncontrolled and spilled across those that did care. How anyone can excuse this rant and try to make it something other than what it was is beyond me, but indeed many will try.

What does it all mean? I don’t have a clue, but the whole exchange has been saved for prosperity.

Let's take a deeper look at this anomaly. Something is inherently wrong, so it deserves discussion. What is it all about? Why would a hand-picked moderator be so antagonistic? What drives such a choice? Why would some forsake all common sense to defend this person? The whole little stage play loses me in the first act and I am ready to walk out, except that there is always a new twist that gets my attention.

My analytical mind has been through this several times and it keeps coming back to a game that has little to do with the named purpose. Could it be egos? Could it be money? Could it be ignorance?

The only thing I can determine for sure is that it has little to do with the recovery of Natalee Holloway!

This latest declaration made by a board “moderator” also deserves a closer look and an examination of the true intent.

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What made me decide to resign.......if I may be so brutally honest......it's the petty high school jealousy that goes on. It's the fact that this has turned into a soap opera.. with nasty little fits of jealous women tossed in Most of you are not here to talk about the case, but to talk about each other! and quite frankly I have grown SICK of it. I think that every single one of you who have a problem with my friendship with another member are nothing more than a bunch of old biddies and young fruit and vegetable eating jogging biddies who have nothing better to do with their time then sit around and talk about me. It's quite honestly sad at times. So here I went and gave most of you hens what you wanted... what you have been pushing for and I resigned... but did that make some of you happy? hell no! You just amped it right up and jumped in the thread and had to keep having a little go at me. Now the forum should be renamed Blogs for gagirl right? I cant seem to do a damn thing to make most of you happy. And so now ya'll get to read this, Congrats.

The plain and SIMPLE TRUTH is.......Women are nasty as hell to each other and it's sickening.

Well I am ALSO tired of some of you being allowed to take your pop shots and not a damn thing is done about it. You sit in the corners and cheer each other on like a pack of rabid dogs.

I hope someone saves this damn post before it gets deleted [happy to oblige] and ya'll look at yourselves real long and hard.I have tried to be nice... but your latest little phone call conference has truly been the eye opener. MV what happened to your three day ban? That's right you probably didn't even know your butt was banned since you had no problem loggin in every single day. LOL

Look at yourselves and stop blaming me for your own insecurities!

THIS HAS NOT BEEN ABOUT NATALEE FOR A LONG TIME, MOST OF YOU HAVE LOST SIGHT OF WHAT WAS SUPPOSE TO BE IMPORTANT NATALEE ANN HOLLOWAY!! WHILE PLAYING YOUR TWISTED GAMES WITH EACH OTHER! YOU DEGRADE EVERYTHING THIS BOARD IS SUPPOSE TO STAND FOR BY YOUR ACTIONS AND I WANT NO PART OF IT ANYMORE!

AND I am Not STAYING!

Robin, you know I love you, but this has gone way beyond bullshit level.

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There appears to be a great deal of anger in these words and a general disdain for those that she was chosen to moderate. Very interesting......

47 comments:

Anonymous said...

gagirl, for gawds sakes, you are the game player! You helped to make it the way it is. Now own up to it, apologise and get on with what you declare to be the true purpose of BFN...finding Natalee and supporting her family.
Natasha

EasyWriter said...

Ya know, some of them sure can dish it out with reckless abandon, but heaven forbid anyone questioning their motives.

EasyWriter said...

Hey! How about some of you BFN folks that are here giving us a little explanation of this one.

“…but your latest little phone call conference has truly been the eye opener.”

Mitral Valve said...

Well, haven´t known the existence of this blog until last weekend, I apparently made the mistake to be open about my feelings towards BFN. For that I am now banned and the most pityful thing about it, is that people thing I have nothing else to do in life and I will be heart broken over it. To be honest, I am not. I care for the case of Natalee, as a Dutch citizen I am ashamed of the way my country handled this case and is still handling it. But that is my only concern.

I stick to my comment that I have had the experience of feeling uncertain about who is who and why. I know some of the double identities by name, I know as a matter of fact more things than I ever told anybody. I am a good observer so I know what is going on exactly. Because of that my mailbox was hacked this weekend and my most important PM´s to gagirl have disappeared. I won´t go into details, but take from me, your observations are right.

Somehow I feel it as a privilege to be banned over the truth. It has shaken up some people and opened their eyes, as they told me on my own private email. The truth is that this should be Blogs for Natalee, not Blogs for Gagirl.

There is one thing I would like to add. Some of the posters both here and on BFN have attacked Ramm in the past. He once sent me a list with insults. All I can say is that Ramm is an honest man, trying very hard to be helpful. For Debbie this goes the same, as for some other mods.

Although I am banned, and agian, I won´t have any sleepless night over it, I will follow the case closely and if there is any news I will forward it to the Foundation directly.

For Debbie I would have the following advice: Debbie, give the stick to someone else and offer your many talents to the foundation. You are much too good to be stuck with a bunch of people who are out to play a one man show, try to make cliques and cover up.

EasyWriter said...

MV - BFN bans for no good reason. If you question anyone in “authority” you are labeled a trouble-maker and banned for “attacking” a moderator, or whatever it might be. So, join the club! Look around a little and I am sure you will find an area where you can better discuss your concerns. I’m not sure what BFN is really about, but it sure isn’t about fair and open discussions.

Now for the important question, has gagirl retracted her open resignation yet and resumed her duties as the ultimate practitioner of bitchcraft? lol

Anonymous said...

Its all a game to them. Debbie and the other Mods are not innocent in this.
Natasha

Mitral Valve said...

Mike, I know what triggered this latest outburst, not the initial resignation. It has to do with the Victoris Beckam, AKA Maria Carey syndrome.

EasyWriter said...

I think it is just a game. Kind of like when we were kids and would pick who we wanted on our team, etc. SM probably has twice the volume of BFN, considering the forum and the front page yet it only has one moderator. Why the need for so many moderators, if all of them are on the board all the time? Probably has something to do with not being chosen for either team back when they were kids and now they have the “power” to punish and ban at will.

One must look at the leadership, when attempting to gain an understanding of this BS……

EasyWriter said...

Are you saying that someone's ego might be a little out of control? lol

Mitral Valve said...

I consider it out of tune to publish semi nude pics here, otherwise I would have shown you the nice bathing suite Borat wears. That is what you get if you tell Casanova you don´t appreciate the flattering and fueling up the fights between female members. When people don´t get attention they just make they will.

It is sad as it is, for I can understand the Holloways hang on to every opportunity for help. The lives of these families have been destroyed. IMO, the cooperation was probably honest in the beginning, but since it takes such a long time before anything moves in this case, people start to run in circles and address other needs. Among those needs we find ego´s.

Anonymous said...

I cant even type what goes on in the PM system and beyond. Its too pornographic.
Natasha

EasyWriter said...

MV – That is one of the things that really bother me about BFN. Some types of behavior definitely call for banning. The distribution of pornography on a site claiming to be an advocate for a young girl that was most likely raped and murdered is one of those things. However, that is not the case. That continues to go on time after time without strong actions. Yet, let someone express concerns about unfair treatment by some of the moderators and that will land them on their ear. Very distorted value system in my opinion……

Mitral Valve said...

Well, that experience I don´t have. Although I want to reveal one anecdote. Casanova once posted on a thread in a reaction to my post that I hadn´t had a leg over for years. This is a year ago, so don´t bother to look for it. In a PM he added something like "maybe you should meet some black men in an alley". I am sorry I have deleted that post, I usually did not keep my posts for a long time. Together with the Borat pics, which I saved, it would be a wonderful proof to show what a man can do if he does not get the attention he apparently needs.

Well, it´s dinner time now. I am off. I will ask my cousin to watch the gossip that will start on BFN because of my posts here. As I said, I am an observer and nothing escapes my eye.

Anonymous said...

I cant believe she called them old hens. Holy Canoli! lmao
Natasha

EasyWriter said...

She didn’t pull any punches with that one, did she? lol People still defend her though. I guess they think she couldn’t be talking about them and just the rest of the world. lol lol

Anonymous said...

Easy!!
What a hoot you are!!! Miss you at SM!! So glad to see you have your own blog and I come check on you from day to day. Great posts!! Hope all is well with you and keep up the great work!!
ldstlou

Anonymous said...

"Old hens" - LOL, she wishes! GAGgirl can't accept her beauty queen days are over and some of us are younger and hotter. But GAWSH, I'm bein mean- hey, I'm doin what she does! Well pooh, ya don't run around the internet with your lil boyfriends hurting people and not expect it to come back to you. You deserve what you're getting! That photo above is NOT gagirl btw- you've got the wrong girl.

EasyWriter said...

Well, give us a look at the BFN Gagirl!

That picture and the others have been attributed to her for some time. If that is the wrong person, then I owe that person a BIG apology!

Anonymous said...

This is gaggirl:

http://beauty.about.com/cs/hair101/l/bllois2a.htm

and note, its an old one.

Anonymous said...

Yes you do Easy, its not her. Here's a link to an OLD site:

http://www.tokyodv.com/actors/loiscastillo.html

There has been much aging since then.

Anonymous said...

Now Easy, don't you start following her around like her other worshippers. Based on your photo though, I can see you could get better (;

EasyWriter said...

Since there seems to be a little confusion about which Gagirl is the BFN Gagirl, I have removed the picture and link I was given. As for me following her around, that would be one cold day in hell. Not really my type and bitchcraft can make the prettiest of women pretty damn ugly.

Anonymous said...

I can assure you, the new links are the real gagirl. I have the misfortune of having known her quite well. She has changed a lot since her failed attempt at a modeling career. Maybe that's why she's so angry all the time?

EasyWriter said...

Interesting! Just how many look-a-like gagirl models do we have surfing about in cyberspace? From Norma Jean to Maria Carey and then some…. ol This one could definitely explain some of the antics that have taken place behind the scenes at BFN.

Maybe someone from that board that she and MIP6 run will give us the complete low down one of these days.

Anonymous said...

Its simply about power and the human need for attention. Reality controls Robin so he can be close to the case and feel important, he strokes gagirl's ego so he can use her. Gagirl needs to feel she's still hot and wants the "princess power" at BFN. If she feeds them enough photos, her thugs will support her ignorant bad temper. She likes ripping people apart because it makes her feel important and gets laughs from her thugs. MIP and Ram just fell into the peer pressure somewhere along the way. There's nothing mysterious about it- sick maybe, but not mysterious.

Anonymous said...

And one wonders if gagirl's husband knows any of this? Poor guy.

Mitral Valve said...

I see some anonymous people have added some stories here. I probably know who they are and the only thing I want to say about it, as I know the hard core of BFN is closely watching this blog now, these are people that came on BFN to support Natalee´s family but got that scared along the road that they are afraid to reveal their names. For me it would have been very easy to go as Anonymous too, but I dared to say it in the open under my own BFN identity.

People got scared because they have been approached by PM by people that change their nic names and let them fall into the trap in order to get more information.

I always thought these rumours were slander or at least exaggerated, until last weekend a coward in a Blue Dress tried to make me confused. I figured out who she was anyway.

I always thought that the rumours about hacking mailboxes and sharing other peoples PM´s by "little phone conferences" were false. But this weekend I faced a hacked mailbox myself, with some important PM´s for evidence gone.

I always thought that the rumours about "unhealthy transatlantic phone calls" were exaggerated or at least innocent, until I found out that it became a habit.

I always thought the management of posting was in the safe and solid hands of Debbie alone, which IS safe,I add again, until I found out that other mods did not run so quick when Holland or Aruba were bashed, called snake pits and not worth to have been fried during WW II. I found out though, that some eyes looked the other way when things like that were said and that in the meantime the glorification of the United States peaked at his highest when the sacrife of American troops was put on the level of the sacrifce of Jesus.

And last but not least, as I said before, it became possible that one single man could develop himself as the prime monkey of the troupe and made all the women fall for him. The last year on BFN I have been watching episodes of sir David Attenborough´s animal documentaries. To this man I would like to say, refering to Anonymous words to Gagirl regarding beauty and youth: you know how good I look, I don´t know how you look but since you are so obsessed with the male tribe dance that you posted openly Borat pics, I assume the looks are way overdue as well. I prefer the leg over by the black men in some alley, if you don´t mind.

EasyWriter said...

I would prefer that people identify themselves and many do, but I also understand that this blog has touched a nerve with a few and they just want to express some of their feelings without being ripped apart by a certain group of people. I respect that desire and will let the mechanism for posting comments remain as it is for now.

Mitral Valve said...

Of course. I did not say it because I want it to change. It is just something I observe.

Anonymous said...

Oh my...he said I was the only one he spoke with over the phone and didnt that make me special. PAHAHA No I didnt believe that for a moment. (big grin)
Natasha

EasyWriter said...

Debbie – I would like to thank you for taking the time to read through my blog and some of the comments. Your rather caustic post is even appreciated, but it will not be published on this blog.

Much as you do at BFN, I control what will be allowed on this website and I have the final word. If you would like to correct a perceived wrong or explain your position, I would welcome the input. But, if you just want another platform to espouse propaganda about your misdirected allegiance toward some undeserving people, this ain’t the place for it.

As you can see, if you have read through the comments, many people have reached their limits of tolerance and want real answers. Start giving them those answers or take it back to your own message board and continue putting band-aides on serious problems.

That’s YOUR only choice as far as this blog is concerned.

- Mike -

auntcindy said...

Just totally amazing, Mike. You have the guts to open a site and totally bash people and then do not give them the chance to make comments back to you. Yes, you have control of this site....it is a total dictatorship...TOTAL! Must make you feel proud! When these good folks are all gone, it will be interesting to see who your next victims will be. It certainly seems you find enjoyment in this.

EasyWriter said...

Well, well, well, do wonders never cease? A board administrator that bans at will comes to this blog and expects some type of special considerations. She rallies her friends and they come spouting off their misguided opinions of censorship on this blog. Do any of them realize I have no voice on their “discussion” forum? Do they understand that I was banned for being me? Do they realize others have been banned, just because the administrator believed them to be me? Does it sink into their thick heads that people have been banned at that message board for simply making comments on this blog? Surely their IQ’s are at least in the double digits and they realize the ridiculous position they have taken concerning comments made at this site.

AMAZING! Just freakin’ AMAZING!

Anonymous said...

"for every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction”

Mike, your headline quote sums up the BFN situation. I thought the msgs here were mean, criticizing gagirls appearance even. But we all get back what we give out and its about time some very deserving people paid for their cruelty. I so appreciate your allowing the anonymous status, because a certain group is dangerous- they will hunt you down and ruin you if they can. I am just baffled that Debbie and Robin will believe a certain 3 people(Rammstein is not part of the evil games) compared to what- hundreds? of posters that are being driven away because of this sick power play? How many people that could possibly have helped the Holloways with a tip about Natalee have been scared off?? What a horrible shame. And how do you explain it? What gives these trolls so much power? Debbie, Robin, Dave, etc.: you really must wake up and see this for what it is. You are losing lots of people that could aid in your quest for Natalee.

Mitral Valve said...

Who is number 3?

Your true love said...

Oh my...he said I was the only one he spoke with over the phone and that make me special.
I thought I was his only love, who else was he talking to.
Oh Reality, you have been a bad boy, now you go stright into my room.
I know you love me the most, I just know it.

Anonymous said...

Seems some dont know sarcasm when they read it.
Natasha

Anonymous said...

I have spoken to a few people from the forums on the phone, not once was it about love. Reality does have a nice accent though. hehe
I didnt post here to be ridiculed, I came to post the truth.
Natasha

Your True Love said...

Did Reality ask for pictures of you too.
If so how many did you send.

Anonymous said...

Yes he did and I sent just enuff to find out why so many women ended up hating him. I never sent anything that would come back to haunt me. ;)

Anonymous said...

Its true, I set out to find out why they all ended up hating him and I ended up liking him. Reality, you use women, you used me and I did try to understand and be your friend. As it is, I couldnt stand by and be silent anymore, you, Debbie and now gagirl have destroyed BFN and created a divide amongst people who just wanted to post their feelings about this case and support the family.
Natasha

Anonymous said...

I actually believed reality was my friend as well. He was always sweet, but when I learned he was "sweet" on all the women, I realized what a fool I was and what an ass he is. Good lesson for all of us about the internet. Reality is probably some old fart 300 lb perv and it grosses me out to think of all the photos he must have collected. Ewwwwww.

Anonymous said...

OMG It is truly amazing and quite an eyeopener to learn that there were so many really stupid women on BFN. Anyone who ever read one post of Reality's and thought he was "sweet" is I'm sorry to say, "certifiable". Never a day went by that his repulsiveness was not blatantly obvious. And these are the ones who have left? Imagine those who remain. Call the Psycho Police to shut the place down and institutionalize the remnants.

Anonymous said...

OMG Itis truly amazing and quite an eyeopener to learn that there were so many really stupid women on BFN. Anyone who ever read one post of Reality's and thought he was "sweet" is I'm sorry to say, "certifiable". Never a day went by that his repulsiveness was not blatantly obvious. And these are the ones who have left? Imagine those who remain. Call the Psycho Police to shut the place down and institutionalize the remnants.

Mitral valve said...

Actually, we are all waiting for Reality to post his comments, or defense for that matter, on this blog. I wouldn´t mind to hear from him and let him tell his side of the story.

My cousin is checking out BFN this weekend and he seems nowhere to be found. He must be on the codetalkers, I guess. Or perhaps enjoying the nice wheather in England with his family.

Anonymous said...

MV, who do you think it was that hacked your email account?
Natasha

Mitral Valve said...

Natasha, because I wrote Gagirl some PM´s about her looking the other way, refering to the Borat pics, and keeping her boyfriend C out of the fire. In short: I showed her what her responsibilties were.